Not in the Mood for Sex?

Not in the mood for sex? This could be related to relationship issues or health concerns, as well as many other factors: 1. Communicate with your partner. Men can't read minds. Tell them what you like and what you don't. Perhaps you need something to 'get in the mood' that you're shy to mention. Or vice versa - is the man doing something that 'turns off' the mood entirely? Believe me, the bed is not a place for hints, but a place for openness, love, and mutual pleasure!