Caution — forbidden topics!

It is nice when you can talk to your partner about EVERYTHING. But there are some taboo topics you should not discuss. Former partners. Neither about their quantity, nor about their quality. Even if you get answers to deliberately stupid questions. Does that make sense? Oh yes, you can now torment yourself by various distorted fantasies, like "maybe he was feeling better with her," or vice versa. Parents. It's a very sensitive subject. No discussion. Other people's appearance. Especially if you like someone who has something that your partner lacks. Such talk will awaken the person's complexes or even provoke jealousy.

The best teacher is personal experience, but it's expensive.

However, some of us just never learn from errors they have made. I mean, many people, having once made a mistake in choosing a partner, seek the same personality type over and over again. Why? Where does this masochism come from? For example, a young man in his late teens fell in love with a femme fatale. The relationship didn't work out, and the guy was badly burned. But, after that, he tried to create a serious relationship with the woman similar to his ex. Obviously, all these attempts failed. We are attracted to the familiar type, since something already discovered seems to us the most pleasant, sympathetic, almost native. And often, this is not the case.

Marriage cannot be pardoned!

A man who DOESN'T WANT to get married will remain unmarried psychologically, even if he marries. You see? He will try to avoid his family in any way he can, from drinking alcohol and playing computer games to becoming a workaholic, cheating, and hanging out with friends. Psychologically single man, even when married, is kind of not here, that is not with you or the kids, while you're staying together. He is absent. Many women live with such a husband and feel discomfort all the time. You can't change that - it was just a wrong choice. So, unless you want to live with a man who will almost always be psychologically absent - never force a man to marry. You will lose.

Afraid of relationships.

Frequently, unsuccessful relationships cause FEAR of getting into a new one. So, life goes on and you meet interesting people, but you don't dare... The most important thing to understand is that NO ONE can EVER guarantee that a new relationship will be perfect. Moreover, any relationship, even the most wonderful and dreamy, may end one day. None of us is safe from the pain and disappointments of breakups. Realizing and accepting this, is the FOUNDATION of maturity! We are not in control of other people. So the OTHER always poses a threat to our psyche. However, the joy of a relationship is worth taking risk AGAIN!

Wording matters.

Sometimes we program our minds with our own words. How? Very simple! Here's a comparison of two phrases: "I am oppressed" and "I feel oppressed." Is there a difference? At first glance, it seems like there isn't. However, these sentences have different meanings. When someone says, "I feel oppressed," he's referring to some kind of feeling. And any feeling can be changed, that is, it is possible to stop feeling oppressed. The phrase "I am oppressed" indicates that the person has put circumstances before her/himself and is unable to change anything. Use the power of words to your advantage and always be aware of the wording you use. Remember: you control your emotions and not vice versa.

Your Own Path

If you know exactly where you're going and why, you shouldn't care what OTHERS think of you. This is hard to achieve because you've been taught from childhood to conform to someone else's concept of norm . But it is possible - if you have enough courage to break the rules, to distinguish your goals from the imposed ones, and not just go YOUR OWN way, but continue to follow them despite difficulties, setbacks and outside pressure. To go your own way without looking back at the opinions of others means to have a strong spirit.

Interesting research.

The US National Bureau of Economic Research found that regular sex gives a person the same pleasure as the news of receiving an additional $ 100,000 a year.

German scientists have found that sexual desire in women who have a strong relationship gradually decreases.

After 4 years of marriage, only half of the respondents feel the desire to have sex as often as their partners.

Subtleties of massage.

The inner surface of the thighs and shoulders, the sacrum, neck, suprapubic area, the area around the navel, on the bend under the knees and elbows. All these parts of the body are the least touched by clothes, therefore they are the most tender and sensitive. The list is completed by the back and buttocks, which, although they rub against clothes, are also very fond of being stroked and caressed.

How to start a massage.

The massage begins with the fact that she lies on her stomach and you rub oil on all accessible areas of her body: back, shoulders, neck, legs, arms and buttocks, leaving not a single island of dry skin. The oil will be absorbed into the skin, so occasionally you need to moisten your palms in it. When she rolls over on her back, anoint her belly, legs, shoulders and chest in the same way. If immediately after the massage, without going into the shower, you decide to have sex, then in order for your bodies to slide over each other, you will have to oil yourself. Otherwise, you will slip.

Massage oil.

Even not very high-quality oil movements will be more pleasant for her than a perfectly done massage on dry skin. In addition, sliding strokes, which are the basic movements in erotic massage, cannot be done “dry”, the sensations will not be the same at all. Don't be discouraged, but butter, sunflower, and even the best motor oils are not suitable for these purposes. Go to a beauty salon or a chain perfume shop and buy a cold-pressed massage oil. Once again: direct cold-pressed massage oil.

The ideal atmosphere for an erotic massage is dim lights and slow, pleasant music that she will enjoy.

Trite, but, alas, true. The room should be warm, because during the massage the girl's body will be naked and oiled and she will not be able, if anything, to warm up under the covers.

A small study of a cure for cancer turned out to be a shock.

In New England, doctors have been doing a small study of an experimental therapy for colorectal cancer. Only 18 people took part in it. And the real shock was that all 18 patients recovered after treatment. This has never happened before in history - the 100% result of remissions attracted the attention of the whole world. Now, the technique will be tested on a larger number of subjects.

More than 20 types of amino acids have been found on the asteroid Ryugu.

Samples from the surface of the asteroid were collected by the Japanese Hayabusa-2 spacecraft and delivered to Earth at the end of 2020. Amino acids are necessary for living beings, and this discovery can become an argument in favor of the extraterrestrial origin of life on our planet.

The UK is testing a four-day work week.

More than three thousand employees from 70 companies are participating in the experiment. The experiment is carried out according to the "100:80:100" model. This means that the British will receive 100% of the salary, reducing working hours by up to 80%, but maintaining 100% productivity. The productivity and well-being of employees will be monitored by scientists from Oxford and Cambridge for six months. The results of their study will show whether the 32-hour work week is effective. Prior to this, the short work week was tested in Iceland for four years. It turned out that the productivity is the same, there is more happiness, and less burnout.

Under the ice of Antarctica found a river with microscopic animals

New Zealand scientists have found a "lost world" under the Ross Ice Shelf in Antarctica. This is a river under a half-kilometer layer of ice, in which small shrimp-like creatures live. Amphipods live in the subglacial river: arthropods five millimeters in size, relatives of lobsters and crabs. Scientists know that under the ice of Antarctica there is a network of freshwater reservoirs, but they are practically not studied. The researchers left the camera and other equipment in the drilled hole. It will help to find out what is the uniqueness of these waters.

Men with high testosterone levels are less likely to be unemployed

High testosterone levels in men reduce the risk of unemployment. These conclusions were made by scientists from the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research. For more than a decade, they have followed the fate of two thousand Britons aged 25-64 and found an association between androgen levels with behavior and cognitive processes that affect job search. In the future, the study wants to find out whether testosterone affects the successful employment of women.

The Hokkaido Zoo has installed vending machines for the sale of wool and animal skin.

The Japanese very quickly take apart pony hair, shed skin of a rat snake, polar bear fur.

Sexiest signs of the zodiac. Aries - 5th place.

Did you notice a charismatic person in the crowd? It's most likely an Aries! In addition, the representatives of this sign are distinguished by their bright image, which cannot but attract the interested glances of passers-by. But the most important distinguishing feature of Aries is that he enters into sexual relations solely for love. Of course, in terms of his sexuality, he deserves a higher place in the ranking, but because of his inaccessibility, only 5th.

4 most infantile zodiac signs among men. Gemini.

Is there anything that the airy Gemini men will take seriously? The question is rather rhetorical. Representatives of this sign “keep the child” in their souls even when they grow up and can find the bright side in anything. This property opens the way for them to a carefree life without obligations, but their inconstancy may not be to the liking of more responsible signs. Geminis rarely make good family men; an established life will quickly get in their throats.