Couples tend to become targets for gossip

The more often we see someone, the more attractive they seem to us. That's why at some point you find yourself encouraged by the colleague you haven't noticed before. At an office party or wherever, you suddenly begin to see a lot in common and realize that it's a good match. After that, your relationship evolves rapidly, and some time later you become a couple. It's not that it's bad, but it can easily lead to trouble. Couples often feel like "there's us and there's everyone else," and it can ruin your work environment. You'll become the subject of gossip, and it will likely prevent you from moving up the career ladder. So it's worth setting boundaries to separate your work and personal life.

[Psychology]

December 15, 2022

Some employees are treated differently

In every company, there is one reliable person who brings most results. Naturally, he or she is treated differently. And naturally, some people are jealous and think it is wrong. So you can moan about injustice as much as you want, but it won't help neither you nor your employer. The truth is that some employees are irreplaceable and others are not. Your aim is to join the first group.

[Psychology]

December 15, 2022

Relationships are based on equality - another myth

Happy couples don't fight for equality in their relationship. They absolutely do not care about equal rights and opportunities, have you noticed? Happy couples complement each other. A woman wants to feel a strong shoulder nearby, and a man wants to receive care from his beloved woman. It's okay to make concessions sometimes, that's how relationships work! And do not be embarrassed that sometimes one of us is stronger, we choose people for relationships, not robots.

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December 14, 2022

Truth...

When you break a promise you made to yourself, you feel terrible. Well, if it starts to become a habit, you start to hate yourself. ▫️ You can't hide your bad mood from people who know you well - but this is not a reason to be impolite. ▫️Sometimes you have to exclude certain people from your life - even if they are part of your family. The best way to find peace is to look at the ocean of stars. There is no point in finishing a book that you don't like. Life is too short for that. Swallow your pride and put it back on the shelf. ▫️To master something new, it usually takes only a little more effort than something familiar. ▫️Life is a journey alone, but you often have fellow travelers attached to you. Some for the long term, most for the short term.

[Psychology]

December 14, 2022

Relationships at work - is it worth it?

Despite the fact that their “undesirability” is spoken from all the mouthpieces, such connections occur extremely often. A common cause, one location, close and long-term communication - all this contributes to the development of close feelings. I don't think I'm the only one who knows this. And also when there is time for a “normal” life because of the sea of ​​working affairs - otherwise it doesn’t happen at all. Work-home, work-home… My opinion is that if you are both free and not in a relationship, then there is nothing unacceptable in them. Well, except from the point of view of the employer, this can be a problem.

[Psychology]

December 14, 2022

In any field of activity we need moderately difficult tasks in order to develop

Too easy work presents no opportunity for growth. Moreover, it makes us feel bored and dissatisfied with life. Look for tasks that require effort exceeding your overall level of responsibility. When you feel that you have completely mastered the situation, continue gradually moving toward the new level. An important remark: don't overdo it. Totally overwhelming goals can cause panic, which will not allow you to concentrate, so you need to maintain a healthy balance. The task should be slightly beyond your existing skills, but it should be doable anyway.

[Psychology]

December 14, 2022

Signs of "toxic" job

No one is progressing. If you do the same type of work every day, don't learn anything interesting and don't acquire new skills, then sooner or later you will feel poisoned by this routine. Companies that want to avoid a "toxic" environment in their offices are engaged in staff development: they organize master classes, exchange of experience and refresher courses. Employees do not stand still, but help each other in the learning process, and the team becomes more cohesive. And "toxic" companies, on the contrary, forget about additional training of employees. Do you notice that you give all of yourself, but at the same time you find yourself in an environment that is not able to help you thrive socially, intellectually or physically? Perhaps it's time to change the situation?

[Psychology]

December 14, 2022

Postponing for later

Putting things off for later is a common thing for a lot of people. But when the next day passes the same way, it turns into a habit. Sit down and think about what you really want to achieve, and think about how long it will take you to reach it. Picture the ultimate goal. Promise to reward yourself for your efforts, organize yourself and develop the most important part of a successful person, self-discipline. This will bring you more joy and pleasure than a routine of sitting on the couch and watching a bunch of movies. If you want to change something in your life - start with this rule

[Psychology]

December 13, 2022

Manipulation is distinguished by a hidden motive

The manipulator wants to achieve something, but does not state it directly. It will also be useful for us to understand that very often the purpose of manipulation is hidden from the manipulator himself — a person acts in this way not intentionally, but subconsciously.

[Psychology]

December 13, 2022

Hone your powers of introspection

Take a piece of paper and divide it into three parts. In the first part write down your ten strengths, in another part write down your ten achievements, and in the third part write down ten things you like about yourself. It is not necessary to write down the most significant achievements or major character traits. Being able to bake the perfect pizza may actually be considered a power. This list is just for reminding yourself how talented you are.

[Psychology]

December 13, 2022

Flirt with other men

No, I am not pushing you to cheat, because there will be no sense from it anyway. But light flirting and the opportunity to feel beautiful and desirable again will help to cheer up. Allow yourself to exchange a couple of remarks with a colleague or chat with an old friend on social networks. How else, if not through communication with another, shake up your feminine and remember that you are, why love? In 99% of 100%, you will get bored after a couple of hours, but the pleasant aftertaste will remain.

[Psychology]

December 12, 2022

What are intrusive thoughts

Excessive experiences and repetitive dialogues arise spontaneously. You can go about your daily activities or get ready for bed, but suddenly a thought appears that draws all attention to itself. For many, it seems to get stuck in place, causing discomfort, disrupting biorhythms and disrupting plans. Obsessive thinking is a series of images that are repeated in combination with negative perceptions. The severity of their influence can range from mild but annoying to severe and all-encompassing. Particularly debilitating cases that prevent a person from living a full life are considered in psychiatry as an obsessive-compulsive disorder.

[Psychology]

December 12, 2022

Learn...

Learn to enjoy and benefit from solitude with yourself. It is good for everyone to be alone with their thoughts. Rethink everything that happens in life. Self-analysis will only benefit. Don't expect too much from people. They can't give you that, it's just your expectations. People are generally not able to understand and empathize, everyone is loaded with their own problems.

[Psychology]

December 12, 2022

Men and women

Men and women are so different that it is even surprising that they can exist not only on the same planet, in the same society, but even in the same family. It is also surprising that a man and a woman, being the absolute opposite of each other, complement, fill the missing, make life multifaceted and rich. Of course, it is possible to live without half of the opposite sex, but it will be a palette without half of the colors.

[Psychology]

December 12, 2022

Open doors are not so open

Executives often say that everyone is free to express their opinions. They like to repeat: "My door is always open, literally and figuratively." But when you dare to speak out, you are met with hostility. Most people just don't know how to take feedback and perceive any sort of criticism as a threat. So try not to be too candid. A little restraint won't make you fake: it's a manifestation of empathy. Learn how to criticize correctly. Don't repeat the mantra of "honest" people who say that the rest of us just need to grow up and not be offended. That's a stupid approach, because you will never change others.

[Psychology]

December 12, 2022

People never appreciate what they have until it's gone

Whenever a relationship or opportunity comes to an end, there is always difficult times of mourning and sad feelings associated with it. Respect that. Remember that every end entails a beginning of something new. Everything that should eventually end – ends, and you must be happy with it. Moreover, every time it happens you probably realize this fact at heart. But what can actually change your life is your ability to take time to invest in your future instead of dwelling on the past.

[Psychology]

December 12, 2022

Signs that you are ready for a new relationship

▫️ You no longer need to talk about the former. Immediately after a breakup, many people get hung up on former partners, scroll through the stories associated with them in their heads, looking for explanations and those to blame. If this monologue is still in your head, you need more time. You don't have a goal to make your ex jealous. If all you want is to hurt your ex with a fast-paced new relationship, you're doing it wrong. You don't get upset when you see another's happiness. For those who have gone through a breakup, it can be difficult to accept that their significant other can be happy without them. If pictures of your ex on social media upset you, you're not ready for a new relationship.

[Psychology]

December 11, 2022

Appreciate a man who...

▫️Faithful to you. Who is not looking for an opportunity to "compare" you with someone else, because for him you are already the best. ▫️A man who is able to understand and solve your problems, and not create new ones. Appreciate a man who is ready to make certain concessions and compromises for the sake of you and your relationship. Appreciate a man who knows how to appreciate and be grateful for everything you do for him. ▫️Remember that a dream man is not only "loves and does not change", but also makes life happy..

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December 11, 2022

What kind of man do you need?

Of course, I cannot give a clear answer to this question, because everything here is purely individual. However, I want to let you know that before starting a relationship, it is very important to realize your desires. Analyze all the relationships and all the problems that were present in the past. Remember your desires that you dreamed about while being with a man. What was missing in it? What qualities did you like about him? However, it is important not to create an ideal image in your head - this simply does not happen. You just need to put together in your head a few qualities in men that you need in a new relationship.

[Psychology]

December 11, 2022

Talk to the mirror

As strange as it may sound, you need to learn to talk to your own reflection in the mirror. And not just talk, but convince it that you are the best, the most gifted, the most capable, and the most confident. This idea may seem ludicrous. Ignore this feeling and get down to practice. Convince yourself of your own strength and worthiness. Doing this exercise regularly will surely yield results.

[Psychology]

December 11, 2022