12 ways to get EVERYTHING you want.

6. Twenty years will pass, and you will regret more about what you did not do than about what you did wrong. So put aside hesitation. Set sail and run away from safe harbor. Catch a fair wind. Explore. Dream. Make discoveries. 7. It is much better to burn out in flight and crash down, pursuing a high goal, than to spend the best days of your life in front of the TV somewhere in the back of life. (Actual for 95% of the population). 8. Everything that exists in the world was once just a dream... 9. He who does expects success. The one who “tryes” expects something to interfere with him. 10. Take it and do it. If you don't know what to do, take a step forward. 11. Having a goal is more important than having an opportunity. 12. Bold and brightly drawn dreams come true at least 110%. You will always receive + 10% in the form of additional bonuses from Life at the exit of your dreams.

12 ways to get EVERYTHING you want.

These are not just words! Think... 1. Those who succeed in life are those who are not afraid to dream big and then take risks to fulfill their visions. 2. When you are ready to give up, you are closer to the goal than you think. 3. Why put off your greatness until later? Why wait for a better time to fulfill your dreams and those wonderful opportunities that life opens up for you? Why not take the first step today? 4. Everything you think about comes true. 5. Follow your dreams and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls...

Despondency. Continuation.

And in a negative sense, a person begins to endure what happens to him. Even if he doesn't like it. And it starts to seem like the whole world is against me. And such a situation can lead to discouragement. This happens when we forget that we are not separate beings. And we are inextricably linked with the entire universe. And that means that everything that happens is the will of the whole. When we remember this, we begin to feel trust in the world. And we can say to ourselves: “Everything that is happening now is for the good. Even if I don’t understand why this is all happening, I trust the world.”

Despondency. Continuation.

When one event after another happens and we feel that we are unable to resist these events and our desired future is further and further away. There is no hope that we can realize our desired future. At this moment, it may seem to us that we can only accept and endure. But this is not true humility. Because true humility gives rise to an inner feeling of peace, acceptance, grace. When we feel that yes, we are not able to change everything in the outside world, but at the same time we trust everything that happens and feel that we are being led as if by the hand by something greater that exists in this world than ourselves.

Despondency.

First of all, you need to understand who is in despondency. And because of what. Answering the question WHO, we must understand that it is not we who are discouraged, this is our false self. False Ego. We ourselves are not really discouraged. And the false self shows its displeasure and feels despondent and sad because of the false self-perception. That is, the reason for staying in despondency is a false sense of self. This feeling means that we feel cut off from the whole, cut off from the world. We feel like separate beings. And when some event occurs that does not fit into our plans, does not meet our expectations, it is very easy for our desires to collapse, give up, succumb to the influence of circumstances so that we feel defeated. And it can become an overwhelming burden.

Couples tend to become targets for gossip

The more often we see someone, the more attractive they seem to us. That's why at some point you find yourself encouraged by the colleague you haven't noticed before. At an office party or wherever, you suddenly begin to see a lot in common and realize that it's a good match. After that, your relationship evolves rapidly, and some time later you become a couple. It's not that it's bad, but it can easily lead to trouble. Couples often feel like "there's us and there's everyone else," and it can ruin your work environment. You'll become the subject of gossip, and it will likely prevent you from moving up the career ladder. So it's worth setting boundaries to separate your work and personal life.

Some employees are treated differently

In every company, there is one reliable person who brings most results. Naturally, he or she is treated differently. And naturally, some people are jealous and think it is wrong. So you can moan about injustice as much as you want, but it won't help neither you nor your employer. The truth is that some employees are irreplaceable and others are not. Your aim is to join the first group.

Relationships are based on equality - another myth

Happy couples don't fight for equality in their relationship. They absolutely do not care about equal rights and opportunities, have you noticed? Happy couples complement each other. A woman wants to feel a strong shoulder nearby, and a man wants to receive care from his beloved woman. It's okay to make concessions sometimes, that's how relationships work! And do not be embarrassed that sometimes one of us is stronger, we choose people for relationships, not robots.

Truth...

When you break a promise you made to yourself, you feel terrible. Well, if it starts to become a habit, you start to hate yourself. ▫️ You can't hide your bad mood from people who know you well - but this is not a reason to be impolite. ▫️Sometimes you have to exclude certain people from your life - even if they are part of your family. The best way to find peace is to look at the ocean of stars. There is no point in finishing a book that you don't like. Life is too short for that. Swallow your pride and put it back on the shelf. ▫️To master something new, it usually takes only a little more effort than something familiar. ▫️Life is a journey alone, but you often have fellow travelers attached to you. Some for the long term, most for the short term.

Relationships at work - is it worth it?

Despite the fact that their “undesirability” is spoken from all the mouthpieces, such connections occur extremely often. A common cause, one location, close and long-term communication - all this contributes to the development of close feelings. I don't think I'm the only one who knows this. And also when there is time for a “normal” life because of the sea of ​​working affairs - otherwise it doesn’t happen at all. Work-home, work-home… My opinion is that if you are both free and not in a relationship, then there is nothing unacceptable in them. Well, except from the point of view of the employer, this can be a problem.

In any field of activity we need moderately difficult tasks in order to develop

Too easy work presents no opportunity for growth. Moreover, it makes us feel bored and dissatisfied with life. Look for tasks that require effort exceeding your overall level of responsibility. When you feel that you have completely mastered the situation, continue gradually moving toward the new level. An important remark: don't overdo it. Totally overwhelming goals can cause panic, which will not allow you to concentrate, so you need to maintain a healthy balance. The task should be slightly beyond your existing skills, but it should be doable anyway.

Signs of "toxic" job

No one is progressing. If you do the same type of work every day, don't learn anything interesting and don't acquire new skills, then sooner or later you will feel poisoned by this routine. Companies that want to avoid a "toxic" environment in their offices are engaged in staff development: they organize master classes, exchange of experience and refresher courses. Employees do not stand still, but help each other in the learning process, and the team becomes more cohesive. And "toxic" companies, on the contrary, forget about additional training of employees. Do you notice that you give all of yourself, but at the same time you find yourself in an environment that is not able to help you thrive socially, intellectually or physically? Perhaps it's time to change the situation?

Postponing for later

Putting things off for later is a common thing for a lot of people. But when the next day passes the same way, it turns into a habit. Sit down and think about what you really want to achieve, and think about how long it will take you to reach it. Picture the ultimate goal. Promise to reward yourself for your efforts, organize yourself and develop the most important part of a successful person, self-discipline. This will bring you more joy and pleasure than a routine of sitting on the couch and watching a bunch of movies. If you want to change something in your life - start with this rule

Manipulation is distinguished by a hidden motive

The manipulator wants to achieve something, but does not state it directly. It will also be useful for us to understand that very often the purpose of manipulation is hidden from the manipulator himself — a person acts in this way not intentionally, but subconsciously.

Hone your powers of introspection

Take a piece of paper and divide it into three parts. In the first part write down your ten strengths, in another part write down your ten achievements, and in the third part write down ten things you like about yourself. It is not necessary to write down the most significant achievements or major character traits. Being able to bake the perfect pizza may actually be considered a power. This list is just for reminding yourself how talented you are.

Flirt with other men

No, I am not pushing you to cheat, because there will be no sense from it anyway. But light flirting and the opportunity to feel beautiful and desirable again will help to cheer up. Allow yourself to exchange a couple of remarks with a colleague or chat with an old friend on social networks. How else, if not through communication with another, shake up your feminine and remember that you are, why love? In 99% of 100%, you will get bored after a couple of hours, but the pleasant aftertaste will remain.

What are intrusive thoughts

Excessive experiences and repetitive dialogues arise spontaneously. You can go about your daily activities or get ready for bed, but suddenly a thought appears that draws all attention to itself. For many, it seems to get stuck in place, causing discomfort, disrupting biorhythms and disrupting plans. Obsessive thinking is a series of images that are repeated in combination with negative perceptions. The severity of their influence can range from mild but annoying to severe and all-encompassing. Particularly debilitating cases that prevent a person from living a full life are considered in psychiatry as an obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Learn...

Learn to enjoy and benefit from solitude with yourself. It is good for everyone to be alone with their thoughts. Rethink everything that happens in life. Self-analysis will only benefit. Don't expect too much from people. They can't give you that, it's just your expectations. People are generally not able to understand and empathize, everyone is loaded with their own problems.

Men and women

Men and women are so different that it is even surprising that they can exist not only on the same planet, in the same society, but even in the same family. It is also surprising that a man and a woman, being the absolute opposite of each other, complement, fill the missing, make life multifaceted and rich. Of course, it is possible to live without half of the opposite sex, but it will be a palette without half of the colors.

Open doors are not so open

Executives often say that everyone is free to express their opinions. They like to repeat: "My door is always open, literally and figuratively." But when you dare to speak out, you are met with hostility. Most people just don't know how to take feedback and perceive any sort of criticism as a threat. So try not to be too candid. A little restraint won't make you fake: it's a manifestation of empathy. Learn how to criticize correctly. Don't repeat the mantra of "honest" people who say that the rest of us just need to grow up and not be offended. That's a stupid approach, because you will never change others.