John Kehoe "The Subconscious Can Do Anything"

We recommend reading. As relevant as ever! Our thoughts are the main creative force in the universe. Kehoe teaches that the power of the mind can achieve the fulfillment of desires and influence the events of everyday life. And recently I came across an article that talked about a basketball team that was divided into two groups. One group had to practice shooting balls for an hour a day for two weeks. The other was to lie on the mats for ten minutes every day for two weeks and imagine that they were successfully throwing balls into the basket. After a two-week period, both parts of the team were tested. None of the basketball players played like Michael Jordan, but the results were still stunning: the half of the team that actually trained improved by 25%, and the part of the players whose training took place only in their imagination, by 24%.

Release negativity from your life.

Every life is a picture. Parents give a canvas, fate - a frame, society - paints, well, but we have to draw ourselves! Remember the zebra: the stripe is white, the stripe is black. But if you do not step over your troubles or even tragedies, then you will remain forever on the black stripe.

What drives men to cheat.

intellectual needs. A man is not interested in a woman, he has nothing to talk about with her, they have no common goals and values. emotional needs. A man from his wife does not receive enough love, care, support, understanding, respect and other positive emotions. bodily needs. The husband does not receive good sex from his wife, high-quality delicious food, comfort and coziness in the house. The need for recognition. A man next to his wife does not feel important, significant and appreciated. If you want a man not to cheat, realize that he has these needs and try to satisfy them as much as possible. If some important needs are not met, the partner feels "hunger" and begins to satisfy it on the side. Therefore, a man seeks on the side what he does not receive from his wife.

Forget being smart.

Being interesting and being smart about lofty topics are completely different things. Do not rush from the first meeting with a man to prove to him theories of the creation of the world. The woman is not about that at all. So, a man will feel boasting and even vulgarity. This does not mean that you need to pretend to be a fool and blink your eyes all evening. Be natural, do not try to show off to everyone at once. Give him the opportunity to teach you something himself. Then he will experience real pleasure.

4 signs he has a crush on you.

Specific signs of a man who has a crush on you and if you don’t see them, you better look at someone else: He initiates communication. The more often, the stronger the fuse: the first one writes, calls for no reason. ▫️ Tries to be helpful: looking for a way to help, spares no time and effort for you. ▫️ Caring. Invites somewhere, wears flowers, gives something. It's a straight up bastard! ▫️Touching. Well, carefully: hug, giving a coat, give a hand, hold on to the elbow. If you like him, be open, benevolent, encourage his actions.

Gesture with open palms when speaking.

The demonstration of open palms, as well as the front side of the body, subconsciously associates with honesty. That's why this gesture is ideal in case you need to convince your interlocutor or lie to him.

What's to be done if you are put in an uncomfortable situation?

If your interlocutor is asking inappropriate questions, then interrupt him and ask him questions. Mirror his speech, change the subject, and the most important, don't let recover, and it'll make him/her stop asking.

There are 3 ways to stay with your nose without getting anything from a man:

• Be silent You feel uncomfortable saying what you would like to be happy. You are shy, it seems to you that if you ask, he will refuse at best. At worst, it will go into the sunset. Notice! Not a single man has problems with demands in our direction. • Fill up your price I'm not like this! Everyone needs it, but I don’t, I’m light and free. And again, the man has no idea that something is needed from him! Often, such a crown grows in the spirit of “Say thanks that I am here at all.” And who told him otherwise? You? • All by myself! When a man does nothing, he does not appreciate what he has, does not appreciate comfort, does not appreciate what he receives. You yourself convinced him that nothing needs to be done for you, and he deserves everything just like that.

Checklist of harmonious relationships.

Warm and calm nearby. Most of the moments together are neutral-positive. Not an emotional swing from anger to violent joy, but peacefully and lightly. Rest your soul in the presence of each other, fill up. Emotional intimacy. Freely share desires, dreams and experiences, you know that you will hear each other. The secret quality of happy couples is the ability to withstand other people's anger, sadness, fear - not to merge, not to reduce to a joke, devaluing. Respect and equality. There is no dominant party and submissive slave. Fairness in the distribution of finances and household duties. Team play. The common WE is slightly more important than the interests of each individual. Sex compatibility. One direction of desires and tastes.

Take the first steps.

According to men, when a woman loves, she wants to have sex with him. For them it is important. Especially if the initiative comes from her, and she herself calls on her husband for intimacy. Make an offer he can't refuse. After all, the house has not only a bedroom, but also other rooms that can be used for these purposes. What if you change something or try something new? In general, experiment!

Draw conclusions.

Remember, the one who summarizes and recaps what was said controls the negotiations. By summarizing, you can emphasize what is beneficial to you, to conform reached agreements, and sometimes to influence others' decision. Use phrases such as: - So, we have agreed on the following... - Let me draw the line... - Let's recap...

Arguing: simple rules.

There are few people who have never thought they were smarter than others. Here are some tips to help you avoid this trap. Try to ARGUE with your opponent WITHOUT AGGRESSION. Anger prevents us from remaining objective and thinking coherently. Don't be afraid to admit that you don't understand something or don't know enough about an issue. It's not a shame not to know something. The only shame is to pretend that we know everything.

You never saw how beautiful you are.

You see yourself only in the reflection of the mirror, and when you look at the photo with yourself. And you often don't like what you see. But you have never seen yourself at the moment when sparks in your eyes light up with happiness. You have never seen yourself when you look at someone or something with eyes in love to tears ... You have not seen yourself when you rejoiced at unexpected surprises or events ... You are beautiful every second, every moment: when you smile when you cry, when you sleep or when you laugh. Love yourself the way you are!

"A man loves not the woman herself, but his condition next to her"

A real woman is not at all the most beautiful, not the smartest and not the most successful. A real woman gives a man not a mind, not beauty, not a body, not success, but a state. A woman who creates a special superman state in men will always be loved. She creates this state by enjoying the company of her man and admiring him. And a man will always be drawn to this special state, as to a magnet. Have you heard of this theory before? Agree?

How to understand that a man loves you?

Male and female love are different from each other. If a man: - wants you - it's a passion. He wants to possess you. - invites you to do something together - this is a sign of emotional closeness. He is interested in you, your affairs, calls you somewhere, he wants to spend time with you. - provides you. He earns and gives money to you. Are you saying this isn't enough? Are you not enough? Yes, girls, women's love is a little different.

3 reasons to immediately mark the boundaries.

Here are three typical situations when it's time to set boundaries for your partner: 1. Your opinion has been multiplied by zero. Everyone thinks only of themselves, and you are at their service. Either the mother-in-law thinks that you are a servant, or the husband does not consider it necessary to warn about his plans, then drop everything to the child and give it right away. 2. You are insulted, devalued and offended. You are always extreme, guilty of everything, a bad wife, mother, it's time for you to change so that everyone likes it. 3. You are being mistreated. This includes all correspondence in social networks and other signs of attention to other women. They control you, they forbid you, they demand from you and do not thank you. More often than not, we don't know what to do. We get offended, we get lost, we look for reasons in ourselves, we scandal, we freak out, we get divorced. But remember: you can do this as long as you allow it.

Who is a male provocateur?

His favorite game is to provoke you to emotions, and unpleasant ones, those that will make you feel uncomfortable. There are several types of them: • Amateur provocateur. The person for whom the only correct opinion is his own does not tolerate dissent. • Provocateur-strategist. Most often, they do something behind their backs to achieve their own success or to put themselves in the best light. • Ruler-ruler. Plays with those who are psychologically weaker, looking for a victim, and then asserts himself through manipulation.

Being offended is a sign of low emotional intelligence.

Women often use this trick in communication with men: "I am offended". However, it's just an excuse to purse lips... In fact, BEING OFFENDED is a clear sign that a person lacks emotional intelligence. High-EQ people know how to forgive and keep control over their behavior if they offend someone. What's to be done? Increase the level of your emotional intelligence and fight resentment as well.

Pick the right moment to talk.

To do this you have to study a person, to know more about his/her daily routine, work schedule, habits, favorite places, and company. For example, many managers try to do most of their work at the beginning of the day. Monday is the most hectic day, while on Friday people think less about business. So it's worth choosing a time in the afternoon in the middle of the week. Choose the most optimal time to arrange your effective meeting.

Never talk about past partners.

No one needs memories of past partners, they can only interfere and hurt. You should not talk about them even in passing, and even more so in detail or expressing regret or admiration. It's one thing to theoretically know that someone was, and another thing when they talk about it directly, and even express emotions. There are people who think that by learning or talking about previous relationships, they insure themselves and their partner against repeating the mistakes of the past. But it doesn't work that way. Old experience will not help, but only hinder.